For this installment of our weekly interview series, Love, Actuallyabout the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Vera a pseudonyma married woman who unexpectedly got into swinging during a tenth-anniversary cruise. I came across a "clothing optional lifestyle takeover cruise. We assumed "lifestyle" meant BDSM.
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Verified by Psychology Today. The Swinging Paradigm. I hear this often from people who know of my research with the swinging population, which they consider deviant and suspicious.
I wanted to find out what it is about swinging that keeps happily married women in the lifestyle. I kissed a girl and I liked it And apparently, she's not the only one. Some married women like it, too — a lot.
MORE than half of female swingers use recreational drugs to boost their sex lives, the first study of its kind reveals. The research, involving more than 1, adults with multiple partners, asked whether they dabbled with chemical stimulants in the bedroom. Experts found women were the keenest to mix drugs with pleasure, with 51 per cent of female swingers admitting using illegal substances to improve their love loves.
Swingingsometimes called wife swappinghusband swapping or partner swappingis sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality and quantity of sex.
Swinging has always had kind of a gross connotation to it, right? But that perception, like any prejudice, is probably the result of having never actually swung yourself. Still no?
I am not sure how many of you studlings are interested in the kinkier aspects of sexuality. However, there are others among you who like to see what the limits are, explore everything, and learn from experience what you like and dislike. Fortunately, there is a wide variety of cool sex stuff to discover, and every interesting thing you do makes you a more knowledgeable, experienced, and stimulating person. Hence, sleeping with women in swinging situations or who are in open relationships is a great way to get your needs met without accidentally destroying your belief in true love and loyalty.
If you would have told me a year ago that I would one day watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I would have laughed in your face. Though my addiction had been curbed since meeting my husband, thanks to a combination of efforts buoyed by his support, would a salacious vacation reopen the wound? Why not a swingers resort?